How to Use Your Vibrator on Your Boyfriend
Vibrators feel ahhh-mazing on the clitoris and vagina, but there’s something we tend to overlook—they feel just as good for penis-owners, too.
Yep, they can definitely boost your chances of orgasming during solo play. And there’s good news: there are tons of steamy ways to use your vibrator on your boyfriend, too! If you want to treat your BF to some sweet sensations, here’s how to introduce your partner to your buzzy babe.
How to Bring Your Vibrator into the Bedroom
First things first—before you bring your vibrator between the sheets, you’ll need your boyfriend’s consent. If you’re already using a vibrator in the bedroom, ask if they want you to use the vibrator on them to mix things up.
Believe it or not, tons of penis-owners are curious about using vibrators for their own pleasure, so you might get an eager “Yes!” right off the bat. But if they’re feeling unsure, you’ll need to warm them up to the idea.
There are countless benefits to using vibrators in the bedroom. They can heat up your relationship, empower your partner to explore their body, and even open their mind to new sexual experiences. What’s not to love?
And if you haven’t used toys with your boyfriend before, prepare for the intimidation factor (yes, it’s a real thing). Try starting with something non-phallic, like a dual-action vibrator, to make them feel comfortable. Rabbit vibrators are incredibly versatile, so you can press it against their taint, massage their sweet spots, and go wherever your desire takes you!
5 Sexy Ways to Use Your Vibrator on Your Boyfriend
Once you have their consent, it’s time to start exploring. And remember: Everyone is different. The only way you’ll know what works best is through communication.
Don’t be afraid to ask questions (“does that feel good?”, “harder or softer?”, etc.) to see what makes your partner tick. It not only makes them feel cared for, but it’s also the best way to learn their preferences.
When you’re ready to start buzzing, here are five moves that’ll give your partner chills.
#1 - Tease His Erogenous Zones
Start with a low vibration setting and use the tip to slowly tease your nipples before moving on to your partner’s. As you circle their nipples, play around with some different vibration settings.
To take your foreplay to the next level, alternate between using the vibrator and sucking their nipples. Trust us; the back-and-forth vibrations and the heat from your lips will feel amazing. Then, gently move your vibrator along their neck, stomach, and down to their inner thighs.
#2 - Turn It Down Low
Start by gently massaging your boyfriend with your vibrator while they’re still wearing underwear. If you’re getting dirty with a sex toy virgin, this can be a sexy way to test the waters and explore their pleasure zones.
Once they’re warmed up, rub your vibrator along the outline of their shaft. Then, hand over your vibrator, letting them try little circles on your vulva and around your clit.
#3 - Spice Up Your Oral Sex
The next time you’re going down on your BF, grab your vibrator! Again, start with the lowest setting and press it against their taint for some seriously good sensations.
Chances are, the vibrations are going to be pretty strong, so keep it gentle and pay attention to your partner’s comfort level. And if you want to start slower, hold the vibrator against your cheek while you’re going down on them.
#4 - Stimulate the Perineum
Newsflash: Vibrators aren’t just reserved for foreplay. They can bring some good vibrations during sex, too. First, apply some water-based lube if you’re using a silicone vibe.
Next, tune into your inner dom and get on top. As you ride your boyfriend, reach behind and press your vibrator against their perineum (the small patch of skin between his balls and anus). As you both become more comfortable, try experimenting with different positions to unlock your deepest desires.
#5 - Focus on the Frenulum
Want to treat your BF to some new sensations? Focus on the frenulum (AKA, the tissue between the penis shaft and the head). It’s super sensitive to vibrations, but you’ll both need some patience to reach the finish line.
It might not feel like much at first but stick with it. It takes some time for the sensations to build up, but he’ll be begging for more in no time. And if he’s never tried frenulum play before, he’s in for a sweet surprise!
Take Your Relationship to the Next Level
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With two tantalizing pleasure points and an easy-to-hold grip, the Iridescence Vibrator gives you full control of your partner’s pleasure. Play around with its 12 vibration settings and three dominating intensities to tease your boyfriend with orgasm-worthy vibrations.
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