There are thousands of nerve endings in the vagina, and the G-Spot—that elusive patch of sensitive tissue inside the vagina—is like a sanctuary of some of the best ones. When stimulated properly, the G-Spot can leave you in an earthshattering, do it again (and again, please) vaginal orgasm. This area can also lead to female ejaculation (yes, guys, you aren’t the only ones).
But what exactly is the G-Spot? How do you find it? And more importantly, how do you access and stimulate it for better, more mind-blowing orgasms?
Whether you’ve yet to make acquaintances with this hot zone or if you’re looking for new tricks to feel the G magic, here is your complete guide to pleasuring your G-Spot—warning, bring backup batteries because you won’t want to leave your room after you discover these tricks!
What exactly is the G-Spot?
The G-Spot, or Gräfenberg spot, is a highly sensitive erogenous zone located inside the vagina a few inches from the opening along the upper wall (toward the belly button). It can become engorged during arousal and can often lead to intense feelings of pleasure, orgasm, and female ejaculation when touched.
For years, researchers have debated why the G-Spot feels so good in so many women. Some have even debated its existence. However, given the number of women reporting intensely pleasurable experiences after stimulation in the same general area, there has to be SOMETHING to it.
Thankfully, a group of researchers has cleared the air by studying the complex anatomy and sexual responses of women. In their study, they found that the G-Spot is most likely a connection to the clitoris, that tiny, super-sensitive pea-sized point located where the inner labia meet.
The study found that the clit extended below the labia with two wishbone-like legs reaching into the interior of the vagina. So, when you’re reaching for your G-Spot, you’re most likely tapping into the clitoral network, like a wire of feel-good, orgasmic nerve endings.
How to find your G-Spot
The G-Spot has been labeled mysterious for a reason — because it isn’t always easy to find. However, just because it’s hard doesn’t mean it can’t be fun.
If you’re on the hunt for your G-Spot, the first thing you may want to do is ask your partner to sit out on the search and rescue — or maybe just watch. If you’ve yet to discover your G-Spot, it is usually easier to find through self-exploration than with penetration. Masturbation allows you to relax and take your time to play around (literally) until you find something that feels good. Plus, going down on yourself is good for your health.
Your level of arousal also plays a big role in accessing your G-Spot. During arousal, blood flows to your G-Spot, and much like a penis, it can expand and grow the more turned on you are. This will make the area more open and sensitive to touch, making it much easier to find. So before digging right in, give yourself a sexy tease first.
Once you’re hot and bothered, slip your fingers into the opening of your vagina and bend them forward in a “come here” motion. The G-Spot is not located in the same place for every woman, so spend some time feeling around to the left and the right until you find a spot that feels juuuust right. Once you find an area that gives you a little “oh,” experiment with different ways of touching it. You can try rubbing or stroking, sliding your fingers in or out, or placing pressure on it while you stimulate your outer clit.
For even better stimulation, enlist the help of your favorite G-Spot vibrator.
Using a G-Spot Vibrator
Whether you’re having a difficult time finding your G-Spot or just want to make things more fun, consider using a G-Spot vibrator. G-Spot vibrators are designed with a curved head to specifically hit the G-Zone, while the vibration helps to sensitize the area and enhance the sensations.
Ideally, you should look for a vibrator that offers multiple levels of power. That way, you can turn the buzz up or down depending on your level of sensitivity. For an even more earthshattering feel, invest in a vibrator that offers dual stimulation. Dual stimulation offers a secondary head that stimulates your clit while simultaneously applying the perfect pressure to your G-Spot.
Stimulating both areas is key if you want to experience a “blended orgasm,” where your body reaches climax both vaginally and clitorally at the same time, leading to one hell of a delicious experience.
Many women who have struggled to properly trigger their G-Spot through sex or traditional masturbation have often been able to achieve intense vaginal orgasms using a G-Spot vibrator. Even better, regularly using this magical, perfectly-bent vibrating wand to activate your G-Spot could make it more sensitive over time. This can make it easier for you to become turned and to orgasm from partner penetration.
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