9 Fun Foreplay Ideas to Heat Up Your Summer
The days are heating up—and so should your sex life. Summer is a fleeting time where you can take advantage of the hot weather (and that blissful feeling that comes with it) to spice up your relationship.
Ready to pack away your winter bedroom repertoire? Say goodbye to the sweaters and blankets with these fireworks-worthy foreplay ideas.
1. Break out the ice cubes
Trying to beat the summer heat? Hot and cold sensations can bring some seriously good sensations into the bedroom. Slip an ice cube into your mouth and start kissing your partner for a cool, refreshing feeling. Then, let your partner run ice cubes all over your nipples, torso, and down to your inner thighs.
2. Make it an all-day event
You don’t have to (and shouldn’t!) limit foreplay to the bedroom. Instead, try making foreplay an all-day event with sexting. You don’t have to make it complicated—just let them know what you want. You can send them pics in your hottest lingerie, talk about your fantasies, explain what you want to do to them the next time you see them, or keep it simple with eggplant and peach emojis.
3. Tell sexy campfire stories
Campfire stories don’t have to be scary. Read your favorite free erotica for women by Indulgent Moments, or write your own. Then, exchange them so you can take a deep dive into each other’s fantasies. You can look into audio erotica, too. And if you’re short of ideas, you can always retell those early hookups to reignite the spark.
4. Take a Sensual Yoga Class
There’s nothing hotter than sexy yoga. It’s a safe space to boost your confidence, tap into your sexuality, and explore your body. Plus, you can expand your horizons with some new sensual positions (and practice them in the bedroom later on). What more could you ask for?
5. Play Kinky Twister
There’s something about summer that brings out the inner kid in all of us. So, why not tap into the nostalgia with a classic game like Twister? Use a marker to write some kinky actions (think: “take off pants” or “make out for 30 seconds”) over the circles. You’ll find yourself naked and twisted up with your partner in no time.
6. Cool Off with a Cold Bath
Run a bath with essential oils and invite your partner to join. If you want to turn up the heat, turn bathtime into a threesome with your favorite waterproof vibrator. Rub it along your partner’s neck, nipples, and other erogenous zones to drive them crazy.
7. Ditch the Underwear
Feeling extra frisky? Go commando the next time you wear your favorite sundress. It’ll give you an instant confidence boost—and your partner won’t be able to resist when you tell them you’re not wearing anything underneath.
8. Try Mutual Masturbation
Try switching up your bedroom repertoire with some good ol’ mutual masturbation. Just lie down facing each other, grab your favorite sex toys, and show your partner what makes you tick.
9. Set “no penetration” rules
Delayed gratification can be a super sexy way to build up the anticipation (and make sex even better). To try it, tease your partner by simulating them in all their favorite spots but not allowing them to penetrate. This will build up the heat until neither of you can take it anymore, leading to a super hot and passionate sex sesh.
Make Your Summer Even Hotter
When done right, the buildup to sex can be just as tasty as the main event—especially with an arsenal of fun foreplay ideas at your fingertips.
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